small but consistent

If we already agree that loyalty as a preparation towards a happy marriage, then there are some small steps that when done consistently will contribute to maintain fidelity in a marriage,

There are four steps that we can try to build loyalty in marriage.

first,
Remember that we are choosing to spend life as a couple. Remember also what made ​​us take the decision. It could be a couple of advantages. Suppose a sweet smile, maternal or paternal characteristics that make us comfortable in addition to couples.

second,
If we can not remember the reason when deciding to choose a partner, try step two: do more things we used to do with friends when going out first. This trail can remind couples about what he likes from us.

third,
Giving attention and affection in couples. Customize this expression with the language of love couple. no less than 5 languages ​​of love: touch, quality time, words of praise, helping behavior, and gifts. tka need large quantities and dramatic. Simply show a small but consistent attention.

fourth,
Maintain interaction with a partner. For each negative behavior, do five positive behaviors to create a balanced state. After all, research shows that couples with a ratio of positive and negative behaviors of less than 5 to 1 senderung not stand the marriage.

Over time, including the presence of children, placing a priority partner in building loyalty. So also do not make a hobby as an escape when faced with family problems. be faithful indeed need to focus what our purpose in life as a couple.

Of course, this endeavor does not necessarily guarantee a lasting marriage we became quietly, marriage is not a mathematical calculation, dynamic He, along with the dynamic of the people involved in the ark of the household. Not necessarily only from the second pair. could have been the problem was coming from outside that being a bully loyalty. When one spouse changed, not as in the know when they got married. Or it could be just one of the couple has changed. Then see that the relationship with the partner is not an important thing.

Many problems will often occur in building loyalty, try to contemplate the steps above was talking premises open heart to heart between the two pairs, so that search common ground can be found.